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It’s as if this guy is carting around a cemetery of all the women he’s ever been involved with or who have expressed an interest in him. All of this carry-on is reassurance that they’re not shady and is about maintaining illusions.The pursuing of ‘friendship’ which may be little more than lots of messaging, is about getting harem members to forget their own feelings so that they can stroke his/hers and assuage them of their guilt.Note – some people like going out with their friend’s exes because they’re pre-approved.Being friends with the exes of their friends elevates them and they may even enjoy listening to these people expressing their hurt over the breakup and then…In fact, I’ve heard a lot of versions of this story where they claim that they’d assumed that they were kindred spirits who were coming from the same emotional place and leaning on each other for friendship and support. The sad thing is that once you realise that you are in a harem, even if you’re peeved at being messed around, your own ego then worries about not being in the harem and even that he/she might choose another member.You might find yourself hanging around for reputation management.A lot of people are friends with an ex or two although plenty aren’t.It’s not a badge of honour to be friends with your ex and it doesn’t make you a Good Girl/Guy.
A hell of a lot of people also remain ‘friends’ with their ex because they: 1) want to keep an eye on the other party and keep them in their pocket as a rainy day option in case they change their mind and also to ensure that they haven’t made a bad decision, or 2) are not over them and are effectively re-auditioning in the hopes of being picked up when they realise that they can’t do better or when they have a lobotomy, or 3) are still sleeping with them but calling it ‘friendship’ makes the bitter pill of no official title and relationship easier to swallow, or 4) don’t really like him/her that much but can’t bear the thought that they [the haremologist] may feel similarly so they have the faux friendship for reassurance, or 5) need to validate something and prove it to their ego, peers or ‘everyone’.You say you want to meet somebody and have a mutual relationship – why are you basing your life plans around how to keep your ex in your life or even how to keep them happy? The easiest way to ensure that you don’t end up in someone’s house of ex dolls collection is to ensure that self-esteem isn’t reliant on validation from ex partners or people who don’t reciprocate your interest. It’s knowing that line between being friends and disrespecting yourself because you’re trying to have some crumbs rather than no crumbs and are taking what you see as their rejection of you and their inability to give you what you want personally. Talking with a friend recently who was rather enamoured with a chap who was super ambiguous, a little probing revealed that this guy has a hell of a lot of female friends. Like when you see those shows about hoarders and then can barely move for all of the stuff piled up around them and they feel super attached to stuff that they’re never going to use or appreciate for that matter.This guy collects exes, love interests that he’s turned down as well as becoming friends with the exes of his friends.
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